A beautiful soul reminded me recently about this analogy of the personal love tank. I believe the concept stems from Gary Chapmans work and develoment of the 5 Love Languages. To check your tank, you need to assess where you are in relation to a level of love and happiness.
I've also experienced another similar analogy using candles – how many are left or how many have been lite during relationship building or breakdown?
I have a question about these popular, relied upon developmental processes – do they propagate a perpetrator and nurture a victim?
To assess where you stand in relation to your tank level or candle quantity, you need to do a self-check, using your mind and heart, and here lays some initial challenge... How many times can you give yourself a top mark or full level? We're conditioned not to be able to achieve 100% from an early age, so already a full tank or max candles is out of reach. I bet, if you've just done a quick personal assessment, you're sitting between 60-95%. So is this method ever going to give a complete experience or a top mark, or the happiest quotient?
These processes also focus on external inputs. In a relationship, for example, your partner can be adding or subtracting your levels. The inner victim is easily created if the perception is that you're not getting the love language you desire, or your partner is directly affecting your tank. If you've heard 'you're not addressing my love language' or 'you're blowing out candles faster than I can light them', a little questioning and soul-searching may be in order.
I can appreciate the development of processes to check-in on yourself and quickly evaluate where we sit in relation to happiness. It's the level of clarity and maturity it takes to fully assess yourself that I believe is the challenge. One grain of victimisation and 100% is out of reach.
So this beautiful soul got me thinking... exploring individuality for the first time in 22 years – where would you go to be fulling a tank?
How about your very own well?
No one can fuck with your well, it's completely yours, to do with and access whenever you want. Your well is so deep it's directly connected to the universe. You choose whether to swim on the surface or dive deeply to experience hidden realms. No partner or perpetrators here. If you want to be a victim, you have only yourself as the perpetrator. Defile your well and it's one person Karma until you find a way to clear the detritus.
Assume full responsibility for everything that happens in your well, no rocks for the mind to hide behind and create subterfuge, no transgressions by any other source.
Your well is your direct link to the source, the divine, highest vibrational energy... and its chockablock full of abundance and love. No half measures or part payments, no alter ego's, just complete support for you on your journey.
Dive in boots and all, and access 100% happiness.
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